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Hi operasinger I was also on SinglesOver60 org But I feel good so far I was also on other general s like Match etc that’s where I got a lot of contacts from really young men that could even be my grandson :( But the situation is much better when I am on SO60 Though there is not that much contacts but most of them are serious contacts that I can tell Maybe there is some patience needed. I had the same done to me and I believe that telling you they met someone else is a way for some women to reject you nicely They don’t want to explain why because they don’t want to hurt your feelings or because they don’t want to reveal how shallow they can be So they fabricate the story of meeting someone new I know that many of these women connect with multiple males at once because it boosts their ego I had connected with a few who would ask me a question and I would reply only to wait for them to respond for over an hour to answer each time due to them corresponding with other men Whenever this happens I tell them the same thing that I met someone else because if they don’t focus on you then it’s not. Has anyone tried ? cel 03/08/2017 at 12:09pm REPLY Yes and I got scammed that’s all I. New also and none of this real sounds like it is even worth the effort However I thought I would respond enough to say that although it is a good idea to be up front I don’t think I like to say Hello my name is Beca and I sleep with everyone Thank you very much I think it more says well I want to know what I will get for my dollar coffee and of course my one hour of invested time I hear the women and the men and my view for what its worth sounds like both are a little defensive with good cause Maybe both could say something like “gee I will take a dollar hour manners afford respect/compassion a human right and go meet this person You may find a treasure or merely a friend You will have gotten to know another person Enough said no lecture intended Just a perspective Ū There are NONE I quit trying Nothing but lies or fake profiles It’s a game you can’t win. Anyone try jdate? That would be my choice if I had the money Which I don’t I find myself widowed after a 20 year relationship and marriage Generally speaking there’s something about online that just makes me skeptical I remember personal ads from my single days At least with those ads people had to make an effort to actually write a letter responding to your ad Does a superficial and effortless medium/method attract people who need everything superficial and effortless? I have to say not all women are that way There are some of us that are good I find the same thing on the women’s side Men are looking for that woman with a perfect body perfect hair and perfect make-up and nails and don’t really bother to find out what kind of a person they really are I don’t consider myself ugly yes a little overweight but I think I clean up pretty well When I first start seeing someone I think he should pay but after getting to know him I am willing to pay It is hard to know when to offer to and when not Some men are offended by the woman paying I try to keep it real If you start out under false pretenses then it undoubtedly end. That’s another problem…distance I’m not driving several hours to meet someone Not realistic I’ve done long distance several times before and will not do it again I’m always the one who ends up doing all the driving And don’t tell me I suck at relationships when you know nothing about me Also if you’re involved with someone why are you on here handing out bad advice? All that counts in this society is money We have a crass commercial culture that is totally about what you look like how much money you make the car you drive the house you live in etc My woman is gorgeous not because of her beauty because she isn’t conventionally beautiful but because of who she is If you don’t like the way things are do something about it Don’t just complain. Our Time is not a good Very cluttered redundant automatic responses ( like photo flirt etc etc) Worst is that they let people post a profile with no picture Takes a lot of time to delete the duds Also a lot of creeps with inappropriate internet names which I won’t repeat here Expensive – $29 a month So not. I am 65 and would love to find local men my age interested in women my age too I think your idea to have a women and the men have to pay to see us us great The concept is genius! I am just researching which gets best reviews and dang none of them do I have known a few from Chrisian Mingle and EHarmony that have found do done and gotten married and 3-4 on Match that have been out several times with different guys so I don’t know. I’m trying again too Located in Louisville Ky You? Susanfink1980@ Love to here. I sure wish I could find a way to no longer receive email messages about this thread I have sent 2 messages to your and I never get a reply and I still get an email every time someone comments There is no unsubscribe anywhere. I too have played around with POF Let me tell you something the same men I see on POF I see them on all the other s I’ve vid Leaving me not placing an ad I feel these men on POF really do not know what they want except that pretty young gal who doesn’t want him but his money If he has that Some of them are seeking an older woman as a sugar mama And those men that are older want the young but feel horrible because they most likely cannot do the sex thang Get my drift? Some 50 something have a hard time So trying to find a decent man is like trying to find a decent job When you were looking. And you can’t accomplish that via a best friend who is of the same sex? You’re looking on the wrong s Try “good conversations and ” You see s are for involves a sexual relationship in most cases Yes you might find otherwise on a but really did you truly believe when joining a that you were going to be meeting a horde of men who can take or leave sex but are all about a “stimulating conversation”? Perhaps had you said I enjoy a great conversation during pillow talk you might have found what you’re seeking of course that would mean you’d have to entertain the notion of getting naked and having a sexual relationship in order to reach. I AM SO LEAARY OF BEING ON THESE S AS ALMOST ALL OF THE MEN WANT TO TALK ABOUT SEX THE FIRST CONVERSATION YOU HAVE WITH THEM WHEN I LET THEM KNOW HOW I FEEL ABOUT TALKING ABOUT IT ON THE FIRST CONVERSATION THEY DROP ME IS THAT ALL THEY HAVE IN MIND? IM NOT HERE TO PLAY GAMES BUT IT SEEMS ALL MEN ARE THEY ASK ME TO SEND NUDE PHOTOS SAYING THINGS LIKE “OH YOU LOOK SO SEXY SO THEY EXPECT MY BODY TO LOOK LIKE A 20 YEAR OLD BUT YET THEY ARE IN THE SENIOR PLACES LOOKING FOR A ANYONE FIGUR. You are wrong GG You might be right in general terms but I want to grow old with someone who will be facing the same things at the same time as I will I choose a woman too much older than me and odds are I will first have to watch her suffer through some horrible illness and then have to bury my love I choose one that’s much younger and I spend my later years constantly worrying about being able to compete with men that truth be told I’m not able to do At least not to the ability I could have when I was their age It wasn’t easy the first time you found love What makes you think it will be easier now? Thank you Bud for your words It is too bad there aren’t many more with your thoughts and insight We know they are out there somewhere but it is frustrating slashing through the ignorant ones to find the. I have been on several of the senior s for several months I finally figured out that men are not interested in women over 60 no matter how good the women might look Do not waste your. Hi Lisa we’re sorry you had this issue with the AARP We can’t attest to results but we do know several people who have used it without having any technical issues After you enter your basic details the loads a pop-up window asking for email – ie: registration It’s possible your connection was slow – or that you have pop-ups disabled in your browser. I have enjoyed reading everyone’s comments on this but it reinforces my idea that the internet is not a good tool for meeting anyone If there is a chance for hurt deception or broken promises from someone you don’t know why risk it I have decided to reenter the game after 15 years of keeping silent and to myself with family I just woke up one day and decided at 66 I want to meet a man that has similar likes and dislikes as me I have a small farm that I dearly love working on and grow all my food including chickens It is almost impossible to find a man that likes this sort of lifestyle much less wants to be involved in it The perfect partner for me would certainly be a small farmer that loves the soil and works it with love every day He would also have to like salt water fishing because next to the soil that is a big love of mine. I have used plentyoffish ( ) off and on for about 3 years I have never paid and like the fact that you have the chance to do free emailing to all members It also allows you to sort members in numerous ways……height distance smoking/non etc. I tried match and it is a waste of time talk about unrealistic First of all I smoke and almost all were non-smokers but would take a smoker if I didn’t smoke I wouldn’t want someone who does Second I can’t even count how many men in their sixties are looking for an 18 to 25 yr old Really? That’s as unrealistic as you can get very disturbing I thought we women as we get older must be the problem but those types of men and there are plenty definitely have and are the problem So s may work for a few but for the most part I would. Exactly!!! thats why im wanting 2 do something along the lines of the panthers of course we want it 2 b better,etc reviving it doesnt mean duplicating point per sly it didnt work 4 us im thinking of a group 4 seniors BASED on their premise i used that verbage based on their group this would b OUR ORG!!!we dont need to COPY anyone! we have too much 2 offer to copy anyone!!! thnx Appears 2 ME THAT MANY OF THE ISSUES U LISTED THAT THE GREY PANTHERS dealt w/r many that seniors deal w/2day thnx p.s i believe that the GREY panthers was 4 we people ho have grey hair? dont kno 4 sure but im gonna google. I’m amazed that OK Cupid is even listed here I thought it was set up just for scamming Once my profile was complete the first 7 men who contacted me were all scammers That’s right 100% I couldn’t delete my profile fast enough Why isn’t Plenty Of Fish listed? I’ve had good results there and it’s. To contact the Senior Planet editors email As a 62 year old woman I find it near to impossible to meet anyone even remotely within my area who ARE someone I would like to get to know better I care nothing for one night stands nor friends with benefits people I just am not that type of person However after being married only once for 23 years and divorced for over a decade I guess I am realizing how tough it is to grow old “alone.” I’m not looking for anyone to take care of me I can do that myself But a nice companion for dinners and movies would be nice It seems however that men my age want someone in the 35-50 bracket Who does one trust? At this point after e harmony I don’t have a lot of faith in. Well Phil I partially agree with you in most areas I turned 72 in July and after a 46 year marriage ending in his death I finally put my self out there I dated a few not so interesting men and then I met the one After 6 months I realized he has Alzheimer and his family moved him back home Several months later I met a real heart breaker We dated for 10 months and I fell head over heals in love with him only for him to go back to his ex-wife I just don’t think I can put my self out there again I’m in excellent health not too bad looking and the loneliness is awful but I just don’t think it’s meant for some of us to be. Thanks Barbara I’ll check out Stitch I recently joined OurTime and have been hugely disappointed Again they let all ages join But reading email only on their is a disaster and very difficult to manage in the crush of those who put only something in the Suect line and no message You also get a flood of really dumb stuff from OurTime notifications if a guy merely looks at your profile etc But worst of all their Search program is virtually worthless So I will end my subscription when my 1 month runs out It’s just not user friendly. I am from Uganda and I am 58 years I have vid some of these s but I have not received good response I am sure so many women from Africa have painted a very back picture of Africans I am a decent woman in full time employment and I am just looking for a soul mate especially as we grow old we tend to get so lonely I am looking for a mature gentleman whom I can laugh and share with I enjoy listening to country music I received responses from men who are younger than me and that is not what I was looking for I tried reaching old men of my age but all of them want ladies who are between 18 – 25 years old Where are all the decent. The free s are better since most of the profiles in the fee-based s were placed by non-payers just so they could conduct profile searches Nowadays you’ll do better by texting someone who then can request real time photos and you. Locations would be nice here We could stop wasting time with people from demographic areas that are out of reach Yes I know planes go everywhere however I need to be on land first :) Where are. What makes a woman become a man’s best friend better than any of his male friends could be to him is the fact that THAT woman understands that just because he can’t perform that moment doesn’t mean he’s a lost cause and because THAT woman also knows the ins and outs of what to do to help the man reach the ability to perform She knows and keeps his secrets and he loves her for that because again … sadly in our world today it is THAT important to a man that he be viewed as a MAN in full and completeness Always something new to learn Many times I have thought of giving up this is so hard a direct oppo to the first time when everyone you met was attractive and ambitious! I do think that someone you share experiences with ages gradually in your eyes and not like my situation of suddenly realizing while I was just living everyone else had gotten old LOL! And yes I did take a good look in the mirror I am old too! Like everyone I never expected to be looking or needing a new relationship Many men my age definitely bought into the cliche of as long as you are trading in you might as well go for the newest model! It is logical from their standpoint but will not sustain a lasting relationship when it is a onesided one I’ve been contacted by a fair amount of younger men and while the idea of viewing a prospect that hasn’t aged well is not appealing younger men are not either! I couldn’t imagine anything in common! I have another great that I highly recommend… SeniorTime It’s been really fun meeting new people the is very secure and easy to navigate Every one I have meet has been great Only downside is Its not free but pretty inexpensive for the quality of members. I’ve tried Match OurTime and Plenty of Fish in the past three years I’m widowed and 64 years old My experience is that 99% of the guys on these s are people who couldn’t form lasting relationships I steered clear of people who had never been married I was skeptical of those who had been divorced and single for many years Even the widowed guys were an issue because there was no way to compete with the memory of the “ideal wife” who had become a saint in their memory However IT ONLY TAKES ONE to create a loving lasting relationship Not all men are the same may be if you fall on the wrong hand you can’t blame others There are good and honest people everywhere some may not be in your location so if you such you have to sacrifice to. Recently widowed looking for companionship someone to have a nice dinner with a movie or just stay home and watch tv vee 09/21/2014 at 9:31am REPLY. See our privacy policy Lynn What a well written post and I totally agree with everything that you said What happened to men who respected you for the person you are and enjoyed being in your company for the purpose of conversation and connecting mentally? Does anyone believe in companionship or friendship anymore? Perhaps not it’s all about jumping into bed And when that’s over the mystery is gone Men say they want a good woman but that’s a lie They want anyone they can control or use or at least that’s been my experience I’m in my 60’s still working pursuing a second degree looking to retire in a couple of years Would love to meet a man with honest values and one who is capable of making a commitment Some men don’t realize a good woman when they see one Men Do want younger women and younger men want Sugar Mamas! These s have been a joke Just stumbled upon this loving it. Looking for something real Madbarraza 06/30/2014 at 8:58pm REPLY Looking. Strange but unlike most comments here I have found the s overwhelmingly populated by cougars The 61 yr old female looking for 25 to 50 yr old men I no longer frequent any of them since most ladies never respond to any show of interest but keep coming back to view my profile but never leaving a message at all One thing I am not looking for is more frustration in. Joan it doesn’t take a man to be happy Phil 05/08/2017 at 12:06am REPLY Susan & Joan Phil 5/8/2017 Such a nice answer to Susan. How to set up your online profile in 4 easy steps 11 ways to quit lurking and write your online profile Do you have a favorite ? By sharing it in the comments section below you’ll help out some other seniors

Kevin Gillham it is good to hear there are good men out there I am sorry that your marriage ended the way it did Unfortunately some people don’t realize when they do have a good person in their lives I have stopped going on the online s It has been better for me because I don’t need the stress or the games people play I was diagnosed with another health issue that I have confronted and in the process have lost forty pounds and am doing really well I know my problems were due to an abusive marriage and now I am feeling more confident about myself God bless you I enjoyed your feedback and hope to hear from you again Take care Connie Hi Phil I know how you feel I had a birthday while on one of the s and no one said “Happy Birthday” Hey Derick what state do you currently live in? And what is your age and what age women were you or are you looking for? I am just now finding this SENIOR PLANET and you wrote this back in 2016 so you are probably taken by now or just gave up one of the other Let me know your status if you want to If not I hope you found the women you wanted and are happy Write me on here and I will. I am a member of AARP & decided to Take a look at their Supposedly A several day free browse I put in my Desired ages zip code etc & all the did was “loading” but it never fully loaded & I was not shown any matches in my area Nothing happened….Don’t waste your time They do not have it together!!!!! Don’t be skeptical I have been divorced for 25 years 16 + years having share custody of kids and then taking care of my parents who became ill I have dated a lot and then go for a period of years without After the last year on eharmony and Match I have to say Match worked best for me But my experience has been that ladies 54- 59 are not ready for a relationship The last lady said she was not ready for a relationship and we had not even met!! The previous one was on and off again for 6 months Said she still had feelings for a man she had an affair with after her divorce So I will. Go on It’s a totally free & a lot of members are 60 plus Just the for you Pass it on you’ll. Well now there’s a gal I want to spend day after day with one who … before she’s ever experienced what intimacy might be like with me (and that doesn’t mean intercourse because there’s SO much more to … what eventually SHOULD lead to sex of whatever version or nature of that shoe … fits the two of your feet) What gets me off is what get’s her off and the more she likes it the more I will enjoy doing it If she isn’t into it then I will drop that approach faster (or at least as fast) as I would a cold fish who won’t even consider trying my suggestion which I know most women (based on past experience) … really enjoy (or at least they fooled the crap out of me. It’s not what you pick It’s not whether or not you pay for access What matters is that you carefully weed out the wheat from the chaff You just have to sort out the frogs from the princes Not all women on these s are prizes either There is usually a good reason or two why women are single later in life I think what our society does in general to men is not conducive to making them good in relationships Men are told not to cry not to show emotion not to be vulnerable To “be a man.” Few men can ignore this or overcome their socialization I was just lucky to be born into a culture that rejects that view of men and teaches respect if not adulation for women Don’t blame the s The larger issue is how men get to be the way they are You know the old saying about the hand that rocks the cradle can change the world? Well it’s true Irish Eyes you must go back in and hide your profile or delete it if you no longer want it on the Go to help and continue on from there Leave a Reply Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Cmetronyc thanks for your helpful feedback The AARP was fairly new when this article was written but we had tested its non-AARP version How About We and found it worked well We wish you the best of luck on. I found one reviews that might be useful for you I know that SeniorMatch does not allow members below the age of 30 You can take a look and choose the suitable one. Thanks for your feedback I’m in almost the exact situation that you are in I do not look my age am active fit intelligent educated blah blah blah but this doesn’t seem to matter to men now But what’s bothering me most is finding out that single’s saying that they are for seniors are lying because they let anyone of any age join So there seems no where to find men our ages who genuinely want to a woman their age Even on the senior s they want much younger women and can find them there Senior s should have an age floor Period. I’ve done a lot of research on the various single’s s and Zoosk has by far the lowest ratings and some really scary comments Also I don’t like how they have implemented the profiles So in short this is not a single’s that I’m willing to risk my money on especially as a senior looking for a serious relationship and not just casual social flings which seems to be the purpose. Hey Armie! I live in Utica New York so I think I am quite a distance from you I wish you the best of luck! Connie Click here to visit eHarmony Most men are a-holes what can I say? When I was younger I preferred older women I am 66 I prefer women my age within 10 years Older women know what they want Older women are sexier Generally speaking if someone is single at our age there’s a reason for it and a lot of times the reason is that they suck at relationships Look for a guy who has a legit reason for being available Look for a guy who knows how to treat a woman Look for a guy who has worked on himself to become a better person We’re out there we’re just rare Don’t give up and DON’T SETTLE for less than what you want As my current love says you definitely have to kiss a lot of frogs You do NOT have to sleep with them Bud Eugene Oregon Hi Steve not sure if they will approve this or not…I am VERY new to this as I just started so I know about as much as you do about what I’m doing ha ha Some say they are free and they let you sign up for free and then want a fee for you to e-mail the person… What is your age and what age are you searching for I am searching for from around 60-75 b/c I am a senior retired private elementary school teacher and I live in West Virginia Tell me a little about you if you are interested and we’ll see how it goes wkr2014hilly2014@ I will be looking for you THANKS! Whats the deal w/guys on senior s? they never follow thru they dont pay attn 2 what im looking 4 consequently 50 y.o waste my time im a young spirited 70 y.o 55 y.o is pushing my boundaries but i can live w/it. If anyone finds a great free senior besides OkCupid or POF PLEASE let me know! I am exhausted with trying and not getting any where near what I’m looking for. Hey everyone I was on Our time 3 different times and all 3 times met great guys or so I thought the first only lasted a couple of months he wanted to be possessive The second one lasted 8 months I really fell for him then found out our relationship had been based on lies and deceit Then the last one ended about 3 weeks ago after talking on the phone and texting each other every day I found out he wanted me to send him money Lord what is wrong with this older generation why can’t we be honest and open with each other life is short guys why do you have to lie you will eventually be. Click here to visit eHarmony’s Senior Search   AARP Powered by How. First Name Email Address: Check the emails you'd like to receive Explore NYC weekly email: Things to do around NYC & at the Senior Planet Center Senior Planet Weekly Orbit: Our latest articles To complete your subscription click on the Submit button and look for a confirmation email in your inbox If you do not see our email in your inbox please check your spam folder. I agree with you Lynn Morals and values are gone pretty much! It sounds like setting up an informal matching section in a like this one might be useful as many of the people here seem sincere and interesting and have had similar bad experiences on the s I also wish SOMEONE would start a truly honest which had effective and honest matching functions and who made an effort to purge scammers I suspect that not only do some of these s look the other way in order to make money from the scammers memberships (a penny-wise pound foolish approach) but may be involved in the scams (or kickbacks) That would be truly sickening but with the level of scamming on many s it’s hard to ignore the possibility. I cannot speak for all males I do know & can imagine that there are jerks galore out do not know about manners or how to properly respect women Sorry you experience this However my being polite and honest may be setting myself up to be deceived as ironic as that may sound I wish you better times & experiences. I was wondering if you were hiring ? Id like to work on your farm Bob 03/05/2018 at 11:47am REPLY I too have a small farm and enjoy raising my. I have tried all the date s and never had any all tell you what you want to hear and all become lies Or all want money No luck with any. I would love to meet someone around my age that is not tall I have tried these s and my picture was on there which is a true picture not someone I am not and got a like of replies that my picture was great it really stood out but it didn’t matter anyway I got replies from out of state and even when I said in my profile do not contact me from out of state I was looking for someone in my area they don’t read it thats the way I take it I am very young at heart female and do not look my age 69 which I am told but to find someone like me. I am very disappointed in Services for Seniors You do not receive photos nor profiles I will not rejoin this and I have cancelled my card so you cannot renew. Hello I am looking for a quality gent also but I do not s It is so degrading as the older gents want younger chicks I am 81 and tell the truth but nothing happens I look younger so maybe I should lie???? I wonder if the gent from LV found his lady Although I would not want to live in LV. Hi Phyllis I know one review s for online senior It has listed the best 5 s including SeniorMatch and OurTime. I found that profiles continued to be posted after the subscriber has decided to end membership on OurTime I too kept getting “flirts” from the company months after I had stopped my 1 month trial My effort to stop these contacts was thwarted by their policies Now I have just blocked all e-mails(and I guess my profile is still showing!) You may be right Joan….though for me who is not so good with being 66 and alone it’s very hard to resign to the fact that there’s nothing more left No companionship enjoyment of life with another But I’m not a model and have health issues…I would hope that wouldn’t disqualify me…Especially on a SENIOR …My husband left 6 years ago after we had a very loving connected relationship for 17years ~ he has dementia sooo sadly and I’ve found that everything doesn’t play out like the Notebook movie…Anyway I don’t know WHAT to do in regards to joining a I’m kind of scared and don’t have much of an income to afford what some of these s seem to want Any suggestions ? I liked it that you can write ALL of what you wrote Not just the suect matter but the fact that we are both writers I love e-mailing and the longer they are the better for me I was e-mailing with a man who was famous at his one-liners Drove me crazy I have 2 published books out as of 2016 and nothing was more frustrating than his. Hello Gail My name is William I will love to know more about you Please send me an email to enable us get to know each other wmdavid06@ I am making no claims about specific s but be careful with the supposed “Review” s By all evidence most are written by the s themselves and conveniently put their at the top Those that are shills for the s seem to be little better–giving largely positive reviews based on little or no first hand experience with the s Why else would they be parroting the claims owners while largely ignoring or downplaying the many negatives of each–as witnessed by the overwhelmingly negative comments of actual users in Comments sections of s like this one? Many people wonder why so many members on the s are shady or phony I wonder just as much why those running s seem even more dishonest and deceptive They could still make many millions with an honest and well run but evidently greed wins out It’s all a sad commentary on today’s society. As someone asked I am in the Denver area Joeg 05/08/2017 at 3:32pm REPLY. Hi homentx and operasinger we just published our updated s list We have big hopes for /best-senior--s/ What’S the fastest growing group of online daters? If you’re thinking men in their 30s think again Bowling Green State University professors of gerontology Dr Wendy K Watson and Dr Charlie Stelle have been researching the landscape and found that people over 60 represent the most rapidly growing demographic in online The study authors also delved into the question of which features make a a good fit for seniors Of course there’s no one-size-fits-all but their number one criteron make sense to us: an emphasis in profile questions on mutual interests and honest self-representation over looks and sexual prowess You can read an article about the ongoing study by clicking here. If you ladies think you have it bad I am 71 and a widow I too look a lot younger I have been on our time for only a short time and had several contacts Three of them I have met They were nice GENTELMEN Only one was close to my age The other two were 80 and 84 But like of you said they want women 10to15 years younger So the way I look at it it’s. Have you tried Zoosk? It has men your age Just as in any you have to pick and choose who to learn. Hi Linda thanks for your comment A while ago we wrote about a called “For Farmers Only” — in fact a for farmers Take a look maybe you’ll have more luck! /looking-for-love-later-a---for-farmers-finds-traction-in-the-city/ Couldn’t figure out how to make a comment other than go through ‘reply’ so apologies! I don’t recommend ‘OurTime’ – today I looked at the category ‘my flirts’ and as I’ve heard others complain about there were entries that I had not made to people in whom I had zero interest So sometimes simply clicking on a profile shows a ‘flirt’ result I’ve read from one subscriber that they had changed his profile info I can’t figure out how to make criteria choices enough to for example eliminate smokers Word search isn’t reliable Don’t bother. Ok what’s going on? Just joined Singles Over 60 (I’m 69) because most guys don’t seem to want women my age and I want a guy close to my own age So the first guy who contacts me on SO60 is 43–WTF? PALEEZE! Why are these so-called Senior single’s s allowing all ages to join? It’s frustrating enough being an older woman on all of the other single’s s because of competition with younger women but we now must put up with this on the senior s too Why? What are the senior creators thinking?  Click here to visit OurTime OkCupid Oh Really am new to all this i have also meet a lady that posted her old pictures when she was young please write me dennisbraun60[at] Hi Kevin yOu sOund like the man every woman dream of Very romantic words I bet yOur not alone anymore. Aarp has 30,50,70 age range yet its advertised as pls correct b4 i choose 2. I am looking for someone to have an intelligent conversation with Someone that can make me laugh and just. Fyi we’re working on an updated list of s that includes some new options – pros and cons of each Stay tuned… We expect to publish it in the next. My name is William I will love to know more about you Please send me an email to enable us get to know each other wmdavid06@ Nice Armie Ting 02/09/2016 at 4:57pm REPLY Thanks Connie! Wish you best of. Hi Kkns we haven’t received any emails from you but we’re happy to remove your email from the notifications list for this thread. There are far more senior s as I know Most of them are basically the same You need to pay for a membership to make real contact with other members you are interested in Actually any luck needed on these kind of s My friend finally met her current wife on singles. It s all commercial love is commercial attraction is commercial fun is commercial when money maters involved how it can be natural ? I tried since longtime I can’t find any free tired from all this if there is any direct me please Thanks ! First Name Email Address: Check the emails you'd like to receive Explore NYC weekly email: Things to do around NYC & at the Senior Planet Center Senior Planet Weekly Orbit: Our latest articles To complete your subscription click on the Submit button and look for a confirmation email in your inbox If you do not see our email in your inbox please check your spam folder. I’ve been on senior s off and on for several years Out of all the first dates I’ve had finally met one guy who I actually enjoyed After 4 dates he decided to call it quits with no explanation He wasn’t perfect either but at least I was willing to try So I keep trying but refuse to pay to find a good guy any longer And even though I’m still attractive and in shape being 63 seems to be a huge factor Most guys my age want a younger woman even though most of them are not much to look at or have that much to offer But wanting a woman who’s 15 – 20 yrs younger is ok right? Yet as soon as a older woman wants a younger man say 5 or 10 years all of a sudden we’re Cougars A word I absolutely hate! Personally an older man who thinks he needs a much younger woman has some serious issues I stay away from players. Click here to visit OKCupid Note Be aware when signing up for auto-payment on any online : Complaints have been filed that certain s continue to charge monthly fees after a member cancels Keep an eye on your bank statement See our updated Best Senior s (2014) Thinking of trying online ? Check out more Senior Planet articles: Thanks for removing me from the email list FYI….I am with a verrrrry special man who I met through There are some good and honest ones. I have fallen in love twice from guys I met on One relationship lasted two years until he moved out of state to take care of his son who had become chronically ill He is now in a relationship but we remained friends He was widowed and understood how long term loving relationships work The next relationship was with someone I greatly respected and admired who was able to mimic being capable of an emotionally intimate relationship for a short period of time but couldn’t sustain it He had been divorced for 13 years and admitted he had had many girlfriends I haven’t met the right one yet but I do have to say that even though my heart was broken twice through relationships that started on Match I don’t regret it I had some amazing experiences and memories It gave me the confidence that even in my senior years I can attract men and the possibility exists for the right one to. After my last comment i scrolled thru other comments on here and their seems 2 b a theme of maltreatment by society as a whole! ive personally experienced it i believe AARP sold us out a llooonngg time ago this includes their s! does anyone out there remember the GREY PANTHERS??? anyone up 4 reviving it? it was great in concept but perhaps a little 2 “radical” 4 seniors @ that time i say its time 4 nikes attitude! “JUST DO IT” AGAIN anyone interested? i hope so somethings gotta be done! soon!!! let me. You have to look at these s in the right way It is like finding a needle in a haystack but love is worth it! There are some good kind decent financially secure men on these s You have to screen everyone carefully First messaging back and forth on the then phone calls and finally meeting in a public place Sometimes you meet a decent guy and there is just no chemistry People have to connect on multiple levels for love. Vid several senior s Nothing is free as the old. Getting to try online for the first time,whom ever interested in getting to know each other,kindly respond and we can take it from there,hoping to hear from someone soon I AM NOT A COUGAR AND CAN NOT MEET ANYONE NORMAL WE MEET FO RLUNCH OR WINE AND THEY DON’T COME BACK BUT JUST KEEP SEARCHING FOR A 10 AND THEY ARE MOSTLY OLD UGLY AND IN BAD SHAPE THEY THINK THEY WILL LAST FOREVER WAKE UP YOU MEN I AM A RETIRED FORMER MODEL ETC WIDOWED ON LONG ISLAND INDEPENDENT AND WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A COMPANION FOR TRAVEL DINING THEATRE ETC ETC IF ANYONE READS THIS CONTACT ME AT SIX THREE ONE FIVE ZERO SIX SIX ZERO FOUR THREE AND LEAVE A NUMBER AND MESSAGE CECE I’m glad you found someone I’m also on OkCupid and have been matched with several men who are 85% and higher ALL of them live long distance like over 500 miles How does that help. I have taken a break from the online scene Seems like at times I keep attracting women who I later find out are married Needless to say I am taking a break and focusing on me (Isn’t that what a lot of women do?) Anyway whenever I feel ready to date again you the online s I would prefer are or Zoosk is ok but the majority of women on that are from San Antonio Tx (Too far for me) For Austin Tx there are too many young folks here so it can limit choices for mature men. Hi Kevin Same thing happened to me My second daughter left for and so did he after 35 years of what i thought a good marriage He every gave me a surprise party in a very prestige hotel in n y c for our 35 anniversary He told everyone how lucky he was what a great wife/mother i was And they two weeks later pick up left just like that Didn’t. Does it look like everyone around you makes it look so simple but you have a hard time with this idea whenever someone new asks you out? You may be setting about it the wrong method or you may merely require some ideas for ladies that will make the procedure a little simpler Get. Daphne I totally agree with you I myself just turned 66 and looking between 60 to 70 but I was shocked the first time I saw a 64 yr man looking for 18 to 35 yr range and now I see it all the time How they even consider that age Compared to us they are looking for a child That’s pretty sad to be that afraid of aging that they need someone barely out of their teens to make them feel young This is why women say the decent men are taken cause there’s so few left The thing about these types of men is they are going to get a sad wake up call when they finally realise that these young women are not going to spend their life with them short term only and that’s if they can get one We don’t need men like that anyway I’ve been smoking marijuana since I was 19 My current love does not smoke but does not mind if I do What’s your hangup that this is a big deal to you? It doesn’t sound like he was insistent that you smoke too I smoke mostly at night to relax so I can sleep Before the operation I did it to help with lower back pain that was severe Some of the best sexual experiences I ever had occurred when I was under the influence If someone has an addictive personality it is one thing but if you’re uptight about a harmless drug I would say YOU might be the one with the issues He probably figured out that you are intolerant and who needs that? Why is HE on any ? Wow Why. These s want me to fill out numerous pieces of information and then it turns out there is no one that lives in my area Bad humbug. Connie Bennett there are still good men out there I was married for 27 yes myself and did everything a man suppose to do for the women he loves but after the kids were grown an on their own SHE wanted to be free to do whatever I’m a good hard working soft loving kind of guy that believes in the old way a man should open doors,pull out her chair bring or send flowers leave love note here and there be respectful show her that you love just her (did all that and still got my heart ripped out ) there are good men keep looking and yea its not all about sex but I still like to cuddle on the couch together and watch a good movie I’m 56 but young at heart hit me up I’ll show you what a TRUE gentleman is. With Watson and Stelle’s study in mind we’ve tested several popular s looking also for easy online experiences and come up with five – both free and fee-based senior-specific and all-ages – that we deem senior-friendly Take a look and see which is a good fit.

Excellent list of s I have tried However after reading this article i think i need. I think that Ladies need to understand that (and I’m speaking in general terms there will always be exceptions to the rule) but anyways for instance many women say they are seeking a best friend Really? Do you really think you are going to find a best friend who is the oppo sex? Best friends become so … because they have same interests and through the pursuit of their interests they are for lack a better term thrust together and their time spent enjoying that interest buys time spent with another which then can blossom into a true friendship Not a lot of women are dedicated to football hunting etc the things that men are often found around And vice-versa I have literally no interest in any (mostly always female pursuits) and at my age 53 feel I don’t have the time to spare (waste) sitting through some chickflick or God help me worse yet a musical or opera of. Pof is completely free but there are still so many jerks and losers on there it’s laughable Most guys think it’s alright to be very aggressive on the 2nd date Wrong! How about asking me first if it’s alright to kiss me instead of thrusting your tongue down my throat? There are no quality men on these s Stay away from POF Match OurTime eHarmony They are all crap! You’re better. Based on your high praise I paid in advance for a 6-month membership to AARP’s and have found it to be a total waste of money I’ve sent messages to some members and none of them show “read” That doesn’t seem possible unless they are no longer active members that were never removed from their database I should have canceled within the first 3 days (their money-back period) but since it was holiday time I thought things would improve when everyone was back in town But it’s just as bad I also signed up for OK Cupid for free and it’s far superior. Free or not every senior sucks! They claim and advertise things that are not true! How can we as seniors who are disgusted and tired of their lies bring them down? Is a class suite the answer? I’d love to get all my money back I’ve spent on these horrible s. It’s sad that no one will give a man probably a good man a chance because of height Suppose everyone has a criteria-getting to know someone first should be first Hope you’ve met someone by now and. Anyone else notice that even tho Our Time’s web claims to be for folks older than 50 their recent ads on TV don’t mention this any longer and show young singles They never restricted membership age anyway so I guess now they are openly appealing to younger singles So one less Internet for senior singles altho Our Time was awful anyway Even AARP won’t restrict age of members to just seniors Another black eye for us senior singles. Look ladies let’s face it Most men are jerks There is ALWAYS a reason why men our age (I’m 66) are single Most men get older but not necessarily more mature Most men never learn how to be friends (first) with women Most men are too concerned with sex as if sex is the answer to everything Ridiculous I don’t think it matters what you are on the nature of (most) men doesn’t change I wasn’t looking primarily for sex I wasn’t looking to find a rich woman I was looking for compatibility and connection for communication for shared interests and values If you had read my profile on OK Cupid if you had answered a few hundred questions like I did it would be easy for you to determine that I was a quality guy. So you know the AARP single’s web is not just for seniors and is open for all ages I was shocked after joining to find that out and the first (and only) man to contact me is 42 with a 6-year old son I’ve been on this for several weeks and no other guy has contacted me I’m an active fit intelligent and attractive women but I’m 69 I’m looking for a man my age but apparently my age is a huge factor and I don’t come up in their searches because they want a younger woman In fact they don’t even respond to my messages to them Had the same experience on This was the polar oppo experience when I was in. Hello All I have been hit by the scammers too way to many times even when “my guard is up” I hate those jerks and thankful that I learned with reading about their devious manipulations Each one of us is desiring a relationship but thank heavens we haven’t been physically hurt or stolen from I truly believe there must not be a way to escape this situation Heck I took a several years break and it has just become worse I hate the lonliness feeling somewhat helpless and hate that at this stage in life we are having to deal with these CREEPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MAGGS Yup I agree But also no women younger than say 55 If it’s a seniors single’s then it should be ONLY seniors If I had better web creation skills I’d put this together myself But someone needs to address the true needs of senior singles especially women We are society. I totally agree Senior s should have a way to not allow men under a certain age to register I am sure they can monitor the postings before posting them They should also let men know upfront that this is for SENIOR MEN ONLY The do the monitoring so there are no surprises But you know what I doubt there will be many senior men joining They want that young gal Get it We’re in a sorta catch 22 situation Youthful and beautiful yet that age number is standing in the way We all need to think of a nice that would work well for us youthful senior women and create it together Let it be FREE to all Count. Well Steve Harvey always says the 90 day rules applies to everyone I realize at our age we don’t have all the time in the world but we can wait. See our privacy policy I’m with u opera singer! I’m 68 and have not done well on any of these s at especially Perfect Match….35 yr olds reaching out to me! Uhhhhh… NO! If any one knows of a truly focusing on seniors I would like. Sounds like the same old nonsense from other s using/abusing seniors! were well-seasoned and that doesnt make us stupid!!! Zoosk is very expensive just like Our Time eHarmony I need very inexpensive like $5/mo or less Free is. Now having said that DESPITE our constant concern we might fail as a “man” in your eyes we DO go on We do at least try Many of you women simply won’t even consider any sort of sex that might involve lights on covers off or positions which are going to be less flattering than if we (cause men face the same dilemma) were to stay on our backs so our stomachs stay flattened etc (I could name the ones which make us men look less flattering but you Ladies know which ones hurt your situation more) So although we have now reached an age where we can finally explore the lesser-explored areas of sex due to our knowledge and ability to control our “final outcome” (for the me) should we give up on what is just now reaching a stage where we can really spend some time enjoying the fabulous feelings that come with intimacy just because we no longer look like superman / woman? It’s a jungle out there However this article is extremely honest and well written You have to keep safe and keep playing Lots of people I know are now part of a twosome It. In the meantime I go on with my life I look at it like playing the lottery if you don’t buy a ticket you can’t win It’s the same with online Every once in a while there is a good one but you have to have your profile up or you won’t be in. Wow ure off 2 a good start! let me kno how i can help! thnx I was about to look into joining however I feel discouraged by everyone’s comments Hello Connie Benette! I agree with you on almost E very thing that you said If you live near or close to 92672 we can bond and explore Thanks and God bless! Armie Click here to visit AARP OurTime  Pls dont cover 4 aarp! they 2 r using seniors they say SENIOR then allow 30 y.o.? come on now!!! use the pot or get off it u sure didnt respond 2 my issue of a few wks ago prob cuz u have no defense! That’s what happens if one doesn’t delete their own profile before cancelling also remove auto-renew in settings… Wow!!! fantastical!!! i agree wholeheartedly glad 2 hear it coming from a male! thnx kalyna Roxy b 12/30/2016 at 6:32am REPLY Thank. Hi how’s everyone doing well I’m new to online and I’m acurally looking for someone to be with it seems ourtime don’t reply to messages or they are all fake profile even thou I know I’m good looking haha anyway if anyone would like to get in touch here my email is steveofarts09@ Who knows we could use this medium to. Hi I came from a family that was broken up by a woman half my father’s age I think for that reason I was jaded at any thought or suggestion towards a woman more than 6 or 8 months younger until now that I am at the age when my father left my mom for the younger woman and as much as I would like to stand up for Mom … my own recent experiences have taught me that there’s a lot more to why these older men are chasing the younger women than I first suspected At 53 I know my best sex years are behind me physically but I still have the desire to have my hands on her curves lips kissing her in the spots that (at least I am attracted to nape of her neck as a for instance) etc Have tried Match Our Time OK Cupid & POF and have been asked for money on all of them So depressing and frustrating. I totally understand your comments I paiid Our Time 6months met one man and after month talking Time to meet!! He did not look ANYTHING like his pics!!!! I was so shocked after xoffee I never spoke to him again… So many years younger pics they post… Be honest post current pics. Phil you sound really nice and sincere Why I’d date you❗️I’m 62 and want s man near my age so we have more cultural things in common I appreciate that you took the time to write. Thanks! I have tried Our Time and Senior People Meet and have not been real impressed and been asked for money from men on both s I am taking a break from the s for now because it all became to depressing but if I decide to return I will try one of the others. Hi Phil We women also experience a degree of frustration with online as well I’m 54 have a successful career well educated Yet I’ve not met but a couple people in person Why you ask women want 40-55 sex I didn’t like our time either It’s a shame you have to waste time and money to figure that out Where are you located. The fourth person I met (about a year ago now as I write this) turned out to be the other love of my life I have NEVER met anyone I am so compatible with You get what you pay for indeed! During these months I was on 3 s and didn’t have too many stupid contacts A couple hoping I was a cougar and some that just didn’t seem real But on E-harmony……….there were none in my area which surprised me was ok and Plenty of Fish was a real laugh but that was the where I met my new love You just have to week-out the fake I guess Anyway good luck I think mine has run out and I just need to move on!!! J I think it’s interesting that you damn OK Cupid with faint praise If you are paying money for ANY of the other s you are likely wasting it The folks at OK Cupid have devised a series of questions The more you answer and the more the people you are looking for answer the better the suggested matchups As an example I am very close friends with a woman I would otherwise have never met We are a 90% match to each other It would be more but neither of us wants a long distance relationship BTW she is 60 and I am 66 As the best example of all I was already in a committed but open relationship when I found OKC By being totally honest about what I was looking for – an activity partner – and about my current relationship I found three lovely women The first two would have had to be long distance relationships so those didn’t. I’ve been on the s for several years and this is also the conclusion that I’ve come to unless they have financial and/or health problems Then they are looking for anyone as a nurse or a purse Very sad how women our age are so disrespected–even by AARP Look at the women they feature on their covers All are celebs who have had facelifts and/or other “enhancement” surgeries/procedures As we age we are this society’s throw-away women. After reading all the comment on this I dont think I want to try the I am 59 years old man widowed I’m a very dependable person who is caring sensitive kind considerate a good genuine person I have a lot of love in my heart for the right person I’m very romantic love to cuddle hold hands I have a lot of passion in whatever I do I feel it is very important to keep the romantic fire going in a relationship If you think we can get along kindly get intouch on jjderickk at g mail Will be waiting Derick I agree I can’t afford a lot of the s fees Just because I am retired doesn’t mean I am rolling in the dough I had to quit my job for reasons And I get a lot of men that just want friends with benefits no relationship just when they need you for a booty call that’s when they talk to you I was in an abusive marriage for 26 years and my self esteem is low enough I am under counseling and take medication The men that talk to me seem to want to just use me also And I don’t think it’s fair to say if you are single it’s your own fault That’s not true maybe I have higher standards! One last thing if you Ladies started out your sex life with your man doing things that now you won’t do what do you think that does to his self-esteem / ego which so greatly effects every other aspect of his life and his opinion of himself Is it really that great of a mystery why a man might stray (assuming he isn’t one of those who just wants another notch on his belt) because he’s wondering if he is still desirable enough for a woman to want to do those things which you have stopped doing Lastly it is true most or many men are POS Sorry but its true and those types will NEVER change because they don’t have any desire to do so Well that’s it for now from the sex pervert I hope it helped increase understanding. I have read all of these words and must say agree with almost all i do not even go on these s i am 67 but look fabulous am an international artist and the one thing i want to say is i can not believe that there is no option saying ” woman looking for woman or man…it does not matter someone kind intelligent open minded loving …who cares what sex the being is….what a limited world i have to be thrust into… i love beauty…inner outer any kind of beauty it is very difficult for me to live in a world that is literally upside down and inside out ya…i can relate to greta garbo whole heartedly it sucks when you want to love someone and there is no one to. Why reject me “nicely” when I am a quality decent gentleman only to remain on these s to hold out for Mr perfect It does not make sense Are they delusional? Are they all entitled to meet a CEO 6’4″ who is a perfect gentleman? Is there enough men like this floating around on s that a fellow like me is easily discarded if so why as I said do they remain on s month after month? I am realistic I know how important aesthetics are on s I try to communicate with ladies who would be in my league However s give the ladies the advantage However i do realize that ladies have issues regarding security I do. Hi there A very good friend of mine is moving to New York in a week and the love Gods have not been on here side Does anyone have some suggestions on where she can go to meet people she is moving to Brooklyn Thanks! Wow! From some of the comments the results and frustrations of either male or female are mirror images! I have only been about 4 years and divorced for 15 everyone has a different schedule as to when they are ready for a myriad of reasons It never occurred to me that may be looked upon as a negative after separation and divorce work friends and family were the routines that helped me find myself again A necessary step I think to proceed moving to another relationship without hauling a ton of baggage! So it is not going to happen for me unless I take the time and pursue this in places where farmers and fishing are prevalent Therefore I will begin to go to those farmer days and outings and I will spend lots more time at the beach fishing If I meet someone special that is great IF I don’t I have gotten out and enjoyed myself trying :) Good luck to everyone looking and be safe always Don’t fall for those silly lines that make you think they care and always be independent in your thoughts and actions. Heads up for men who are broke: my dad (54) swooped-in on an unsuspecting 65 year old woman married her and became 50% owner of her wealth (he had little) All the while he was a white collar criminal He finally got caught and went to prison The state took everything [of hers and his] and considered all assets to be fruit from the poisonous tree She lost everything. I have been on these s not for long but I also noticed that the men seem to want young ladies I been. Also want to comment about Our Time I tried them and hated it because of how it works Truly awful And you show know this: Per their web “OurTime is a service that’s designed for singles over the age of 50 years old.” That’s bunk because they allow any age to sign up I kept getting hit on by 20+ and 30+ guys looking for a wallet Gag… It’s just another single’s where older men look for younger women… -sigh-… Totally agree with you Steve even am a woman about your age but who doesn’t like sex at any age….Is not alive If a man and a woman don’t have a great sex then ” best friend” is BS And thanks you tell us what men want because we think we know but we don’t know Would like to know more so can write me at nelykeoyahoo. Eunice I’ve never had that experience on any ! It sounds to me that these are sex preditors lurking on the and their profiles are probably phoney Absolutely do not respond to them; rather please report them to the These guys could be very dangerous. You can’t know how someone treats another who has worked on themselves etc until you spend time with them You can’t tell this from their profiles because many people say things that are not true The problem for women is our age It is our biggest obstacle because soooooooo many men want younger women They simply won’t respond if you contact them and we don’t come up in their searches Plus the so-called singles webs for Seniors are NOT just for single seniors They let all ages in So us older women are ignored there too The only web that claims to verify their subscribers is I have not tried them yet because frankly I’m burned out from doing this for several years wasting lots of money from membership fees and going nowhere. I am Phil a disillusioned fellow who tried internet I have been honest with ladies but in a few instances have been met with deceit and fabrications A lady tells me I seem like such a nice fellow but she has met someone she wants to give a chance to They have had 3 dates However this lady and it has happened twice to me remains on 2 s for months In both instances I wish them well and say the fellow they have chosen is a lucky gentleman I strongly believe they are just fabricating this new relationship that they mention to me Why would both of these ladies keep their profile up if their story were true? Honestly I have heard other stories too In regular life I really do not encounter people being as deceptive evasive or inconsistent I do realize that women may have security issues with internet I do understand that reality and it may be contributing to people being deceitful male & female. I’ve been on ALL of the s one time or another cause mainly I refuse to give up POF is one of the worst I was on there the other day thinking I would put up my profile once again I did a search and there is absolutely not one guy I’d be interested in NOT one! All profiles have been on POF for at least 5 years Not one has been updated not one Same old photos same old blah blah blah What does that. Dennis Braun what part of the U.S do you live in? Thanks Connie Bennett I think that’s a great idea Bob Let’s get that 500 pound elephant out of the bedroom at the beginning of the relationship Thanks for your comment. Living in Norway I as an English speaker have been trying to join s where I hope to find English speakers… But for some reason if you cannot give an address in England you also cannot join…… This is so frustrating! Perhaps you can explain this? Surely in this digital age one should be able to find that special person worldwide!!!:-) Yes: is also refusing to let one search only get norwegian profiles….! Thanks! You gotta love it: Check out the SeniorMatch web It has a photo of a 30-something woman with a 50-something man So another slap to senior women Plus the ages that they allow are 30 years and older Per their web: “ [sic] is specifically designed for senior citizens…” PALEEZE! 30s and 40s (maybe even 50s) are not senior citizens! This is infuriating. S listed above I used to be on some I’ve been on couple of s OK Cupid do not favor me and I deactivated my membership sick of lies ( and Zoosk) I’ve got no luck on there also I got several messages from younger ladies wanting a fling but I needed something more So we had no chemistry I’m 57 and seeking a woman btw 50-67 Anyone that would recommend a better where I can find my soulmate Thanks. Linda I totally identify with what you said In up state NY my options are almost non existent Love to fish be in the oods and grow things. Irish Eyes thanks for posting your experience – it’s valuable information! Great lists for seniors thanks for sharing with us and write more blogs like.

Marsha Your message is exactly how i feel Im your age Still full time employed and self sufficient divorced for over 12 years Not interested in sleeping around Just want companionship for events listening to oldies music from the 70s trips and just exchange experiences and laugh a lot But looks like there are NO men going for that Ive decided to just join cultural gardening and volunteer groups where I can meet people face to face. What a loss! And I can’t explore that kind of stuff with my best friend I don’t like the way he smells (a joke for those who can’t spot one when its in written form) So ya whether the man admits it or not and whether he is able to even perform or not its still about sex Sorry to say but there is NO woman out there who is going to fit the bill as a “best friend” … better than another of the same sex who has the same interests insecurities etc Sadly men are going to continue to act stupidly immature and there’s nothing but a change in societal attitudes that will ever bring a change in that area Which ain’t gonna happen in. Just keep looking There are good men out there like me Sure a lot of us are taken just like a lot of good women are taken But not all The time you spend complaining can be better used in searching. So I continue to look just as everyone for that one needle Maybe they are out there and maybe not but I am content with where I am and no regrets on taking my time I would only consider a younger man on a temporary relationship…that one made me giggle! So maybe older men are looking for a younger woman in the same aspect they just think it sounds better if they say they are looking for a relationship. Hey I just found one myself tonite and it’s called SITALONG…it’s listed…I found it by searching free s on Google. To Jamilfunjoy: Try okCupid or POF They are both free but you still need to be aware there are still stagnant profiles and you may receive many out of state or long distance messages It’s always up to you if you want to respond of course. Maybe if you broadened your horizons some and ask for 50-70 Some of the ones who are in the 60’s and early 70’s are very mature ready for a companion/friend/lover and might be just what you’re looking for Don’t rule out a women b/c of her age Some that are older are young at heart and think maybe 20 years younger than their chronological age… Never say never besides age is really only a number You can find chemistry where you may least expect to find it Look at Donald Trump his wife is like 20 years or so younger than he is I know a guy who is 16 years older than his wife and another couple where the women is 12.5 years older than her husband Have neighbor married to a man 7 years younger than she is so it must work Older women usually know exactly what they want younger women don’t… It might be quite nice not sure how women would feel about this but have the strictly for senior women No men Men interested in this singles for women only would surely visit it It would have to be known that the is strictly women 50+ seeking men 50+ And broadcast the all over the Internet Women sign up for free and MAYBE let the men pay a lil something to see us We would weed out those that are not serious about a relationship or companionship? Something. Charlie Hi there Would you mind telling me which side you have checked out Almost dread starting all over again with the new Thanks Sally I disagree with you Phil I have just started with these s about a month ago and am already turned off by all the fake profiles The men that I have corresponded with have not been anything to write home about They don’t seem to put any effort out to meet a nice woman The last jerk (and yes he was a jerk) completely forgot that we had made plans to meet only two days after we talked When I sent him a text confirming he responded with I completely forgot all about it If he changed his mind he should have been a big boy about it and been honest with me Instead his reply made me feel awful I wasn’t important enough to remember to meet for a cup of coffee? And this is a man in his 50s I thought guys would have grown up by that age I’m a nice woman not bad looking with a lot to offer and it seems to be the impossible to find a nice honest guy Well probably not on. I find the problem with many men is they don’t know how to present themselves! They take pix with rumpled shirts havent shaved and look a mess there backgrounds are a mess! Or their profile pix shows them far away or its a pix of their car or dog! If they don’t make an effort then forget it! I would want someone that is kind caring loving enjoys life one that knows there is stress in life but doesn’t let it run her life one that isn’t afraid to show and express their feelings someone that agrees to disagree at one eight three three two seven five eight four text me you can also email me at greenjuliet 55 with those. Paula I have also tried singles over 60 Though it is not that active as other general like match but I got contacted by real people who are in my age group This is important cos I don’t want to be a sugar mom kind of relationship. As I read your comment,I felt a little ftustrated.I have the same comments about these s as everyone else.I was on Farmers Only for several months and experienced much disappointment I am a retired rice farmer but still have a small cow/calf my profile,I stated who and what I was and that I desired to connect with woman who enjoyef rural believe most women on that were looking for a dtugstore cowboy with a new shiny truck I try to be conservative in grading myself “average”,raised “old school”,and still work of the women on Farmers say they wanted to meet a man with rural roots which I found rather odd.I wish you luck if you should try “Farmers”,and remember,there are quality men left out there just as there are quality just have to keep turning stones Mark A alloyantique@ Texas If you find a good web let me know I too am tired of all the lies and the requests. Hello am susan can someone please send me. I’m considering joining on a but have just started to do some research would you mind giving me pointers to this? You seem pretty well educated in. A disaster I joined POF met a nice guy Had chemistry on first date Lusty Second date was scheduled We spoke on phone and he said he was stoned from smoking pot Well after talking about it in length as I don’t date drug users we said goodbye but was still going to meet as he promised not to smoke he text back canceling our date and ending everything I was disappointed Pot came between a possible future relationship Why is he. Hey PHIL I have read a few comments here from you and this one is dated 9-23-17 This is 3-21-18 I assume you have found a women by now that was suitable for you and not a phony diva type that lied and sent you a fake photo and deceived you or gave you an excuse…I hope all is well Otherwise you can contact me so we can chat If you are in Colorado though that’s a ways from me b/c I am over here in West Virginia and live up in the beautiful mountains with my doggie Hilly Write if you want and tell me about yourself no fakeness here just genuine conversation and no games How old are you and what age were you or are you looking for? If you found someone let me know if not you can send me an e-mail…wkr2014hilly2014@ and thanks!

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